‘I was almost hit by a woman with a car,’ says one of them.
‘Some people do not bother about our challenges; rather they push you down and
abuse you. It is painful’
No one needs a soothsayer to know that persons living with
disabilities are made to pass through traumatic experiences on a daily basis in
a country like ours. For instance, commercial drivers and their conductors care
less about them. They openly despise them at bus stops.
Drivers focus on ways of making quick money and therefore
attend more to physically fit individuals. At the markets, many traders and
passers-by also do not care about them, especially the visually challenged. It
is indeed a huge pain in their hearts, at not being able to access some of the
public utilities, like ATM machines, hotels, secretariats, hospitals,
pedestrian bridges etc. easily, without assistance.
Sometime ago, there was an incident in which a motorist
almost hit a visually challenged woman with her car at a market in Abuja, due
to impatience. Their experiences are therefore heartbreaking. Apart from
lacking the money to take care of their daily needs, they experience huge pains
trying to live like others.
It is in a bid to make their pitiable situation known to the
public that the Coordinator of Disabled Persons Needs Initiatives, Mr. Liman
Usman, a visually challenged, recently led other non-governmental organizations
and individuals on an outdoor mobility exercise. On 26 April 2017, they
converged at Zone 6 and later headed to the popular Wuse Market, banks,
secretariat, pedestrian bridges to practically express and explain the problems
persons living with disabilities face in the society.
Usman who spoke on behalf of the group expressed
disappointment that the disabled, especially the visually impaired in the
society cannot board a bus without the help of another passenger. “Those with
crutches struggle to enter public bus, while those on wheelchairs find it
difficult to get inside the bus due to lack of provision for them,” he
lamented.
He expressed his disappointment that persons with disability
bills that would have taken care of these problems have been lingering for a
long time at the National Assembly without being passed. He therefore appealed
to lawmakers to understand the pains that the physically challenged go through
and do something that would be remembered for a long time, about their plight.
“We are not just depending on the government alone for the structural
adjustments, we are also calling on corporate organizations, architects,
builders, individuals and every policy makers to address the issues,” he said.
Usman also advised persons living with disabilities to come
together to face life by mingling with the society to make their lives
meaningful for their future. A 45-year-old blind woman, Rose Otoko, from Cross
River State, shared the story of the agony she feels at being abandoned by her
friends and relatives due to disability.
“I was not born blind,” she said. “My visual problem started
in 2008, as a result of severe headache. During that period, I gradually lost
my sight, after a doctor administered drips and drugs on me. Indeed, it is a
big challenge for me, going to a market like Wuse. I was almost hit by a woman
with a car. Some people do not bother about our challenges; rather they push
you down and abuse you. It is painful.
But, we can’t question God for the challenges; we are rather pleading to
the government to help us solve the problem.
An architect, Lola Ibrahim Oje, also expressed her desire
for the society to embrace people living with disabilities, by sharing the
story of her younger brother’s experience (he was amputated twice as a result
of diabetic wounds). “Sometimes, they feel disconnected from the society
because of ill-treatment,” he said. “It is unfortunate we forget that the
society is inter-connected.”
Speaking in the same vein, the President, Global Hope and
Justice, Mr. Paul Ihekwoaba, who uses wheelchair called on the National
Assembly to approve the national disability bill in order to address the
ill-treatment meted out, from time to time, on persons living with disabilities
in the society. He said Nigeria is extremely backward regarding rehabilitating
persons living with disabilities. “As you can see, it is traumatizing not being
able to enter a bus provided for everyone. And there is this attitude of
people, not to make efforts to help the victims access the bus.”
Ihekwoaba also advised Nigerians to shift from sympathy to
empathy. “Of course, it’s no longer medical problems, rather, the society is
our major problem. We don’t need the sympathy, but empathy,” he insists. “It is
our civil rights to be accepted in the society. It is unfortunate that I cannot
access the bank ATM easily like my counterparts in developed countries do
because I am on wheelchair. Does it mean I am not supposed to do banks financial
transactions? As you can see, I couldn’t climb the ATM hall for financial
transaction in this bank. In fact, we are not treated well in this country.”
Ihekwoaba lamented that churches, mosques and hotels are not
exempted from the alleged ill treatment being meted out on the disabled, as
there are those that cannot easily enter a place of worship due to their
condition.
He told the story of how he was invited to a Thanksgiving in
a church, but couldn’t access the worship center because it was located on the
floor upstairs. And, there was no lift or ramp available for people on
wheelchairs. He told the story of how he, on another occasion went to book
hotel rooms for his guests but the manager apologized for his inability to
enter to inspect the rooms. “Many Nigerians see us as beggars, not knowing that
many of us are well placed in the society,” he said.
Ihekwoaba further pointed out that there are also so many
public buildings in Nigeria without parking spaces for persons living with
disabilities. “As a physically challenged person, you are expected to park your
car many kilometres away from your destination, thereby making it difficult for
you to access it. The society has made some of those living
with disabilities prisoners and unable to partake in any social activities or
earn a living for themselves. I visited a family in Nigeria who quarantined a
40-year-old physically challenged on a wheelchair. He has never obtained any
formal education. In fact, he doesn’t go out from the apartment, as if he is an
Ebola victim. His crime is that he has paralyzed limbs.”

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